The Most Requested Post: What I’d Do If I Were Diagnosed Today
This is, hands down, the most anticipated blog post I’ve ever shared. So many of you messaged me asking for this—what would I do differently if I were diagnosed today? So many things! But here is a short list . . .
Here’s what I’ve learned, the hard way:
- Start with the RGCC test. It’s a precision tool that maps out which treatments actually work for your specific cancer cells. If I could go back, this would be my first step. Click here to start your journey.
- Find a doctor who knows how to administer and interpret it. Not every oncologist will offer this, so don’t be afraid to ask questions. A lot of them.
- Don’t freak out. Easier said than done, I know. But peace matters—and panic clouds wisdom.
- Don’t rush into treatment or surgery. You have time. Take it.
- Get three opinions—minimum. Every voice brings perspective, and your body deserves a thoughtful approach.
- Guard your heart (and time). It’s OK to say, “Now’s not a good time for XYZ.” True friends will understand. Give yourself permission to step back and breathe.
Reid and I walked through a year — (Can you believe its been a year?!) of intense treatments and surgeries—some of which we later deeply regretted. If we could go back, we would have slowed down, stayed grounded, and started with the RGCC test. And above all, we would’ve been more discerning with emotional pressure that often comes from traditional cancer centers.
But here’s the truth: I’m not sitting here with sadness—I’m sitting here with hope.
As I type this, Reid is 48 hours post-brachytherapy. Tiny titanium seeds were implanted directly into his liver tumors, delivering targeted radiation while sparing healthy tissue. It was outpatient. It was focused. It was a blessing. Next week, he begins a low-dose chemo regimen alongside immune-boosting IVs—thankfully, the very ones that have left him feeling strong, energetic, and more like himself. The treatment has been WONDERFUL. Only drawback? It’s out of pocket.
God is not done writing this story. If you’re in the middle of the unknown, you’re not alone.
Hold fast, take heart, and walk wisely.
Xx
Shalice
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Read about his latest treatment here
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